“Happy birthday!” How many times have you heard those greetings in your lifetime?
But the question is: Are you really happy for your birthday?
How many times have you felt discontent in the midst of the crowd?
I remember an ancient song attributed to Moses that King David, a musician and great leader, quoted in Psalms 90:12. It says, “Teach us to number our days,that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”
Now, do you really want to be happy every time you have your birthday?
Here are some simple ways to make it really a pleasurable day.
1. Celebrate It In a Meaningful Way.
Celebrating birthdays is usually in public, but it does not matter if the event is big or small. What matters most is that you spend it with the people you love.
Personally, your birthday is a great day to be thankful for God’s faithfulness that you are still alive. Another year has been added to your life and experience.
If you really want to be happy during your birthday, feel the love and the joy of being needed. Be happy on your special day. Feel the pleasure of being alive.
2. Count Your Days.
Every birthday almost always highlights the “day” of your birth. That particular period of time is not just a date. It is actually your date with destiny.
As such, to “number your days” during your birthdays means to quantify the quality of your years.
Take a look at the past: Where were you, say, five or ten years ago? Can you see the difference now?
If you measure what you were in contrast to what you have become today, can you measure the greater quality of your life today?
Do you feel the pleasure of living your standard? Are you happy with the quality of your life today?
3. Commit to Grow in Every Way.
If you truly learn how to “number your days,” one of the great benefits is you’ll “gain a heart of wisdom.”
This one thing I learn in life. Experience is your biggest source for wisdom simply because wisdom is practical knowledge gained through personal experience.
When you hear the words, “Your days are numbered,” you realize that life is precious but fragile. You have to make every experience count and have that sense of urgency.
Every birthday day emphasizes the day of your “birth.” Then, we have to realize that where there is birth, it follows that there is death. That’s where you’ll also see that your numbers’ up.
As for me, every birthday is not just one step closer to my end, but it also helps me see to really live with a purpose and be meaningful with my existence. I cannot afford to waste my life down the drain and leave this world for nothing.
As such, I often challenge those who spend their birthdays to really grow in every aspect of their lives and live an abundant life.
Being happy could mean having the feeling of contentment.
I hope it is not your license to stifle your personal growth. Rather make a checklist of what you want to do and become.
- Spiritually, how are you going to grow in your personal relationship with God?
- Emotionally, in what ways are you going to get in touch with your feelings?
- Mentally, are there things you need to learn more and intellectually grow?
- Relationally, what are some interpersonal skills you need to develop?
- Physically, how are you going to strengthen your physical well being?
- Financially, what are some steps you are making to improve your financial life?
- Socially, are there other responsibilities you want to do in the community?
What you do today for your birthday would certainly affect your happiness someday. So find full satisfaction in seeing your life grow with a purpose, passion, and significance.
Have a happy–and really meaningful–birthday!
Glenn Plastina (c) 2018
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